You may very well be a little awkward when it comes to initiating first contact with Russian women online, but by following just a few simple tips you won't need to be. In fact, by following a few simple tips you can get through that first contact and look forward to many more conversations that could lead to finding the woman you really want.
You are looking for a Russian woman because you are looking for someone that fits a particular profile. There is nothing wrong with that. Over 80% of long term relationships these days start online and most are done through some sort of cold contact. Don't let your imagination run wild at the sight of her photo.
Avoid that common trap of playing out scenarios in your mind before you ever talk to her. She is not imaginary and creating such scenarios in your head takes away from her reality and your chances to have a great contact.
Sometimes when we initiate first contact with Russian women online, we forget all the questions we had. Write some questions down. Try to make them questions that are not answered well with a yes or a no, but questions that encourage her to talk freely. She is most likely just as nervous as you are. If you get into a great conversation before you make it through all of your questions, put the remaining questions aside for next time.
Work off of a ready made list of open ended questions that encourage conversations. Don't just ask her if she likes something. Ask her to tell you about her experiences, her thoughts, and her beliefs. The more you ask her to talk about herself, the more comfortable she is going to be with you. The more you really take in what she is saying, the more you will know her at the end of the conversation.
Making a list of questions in advance can help you keep the conversational flow moving in a good direction. Your first contact with Russian women online doesn't have to drag out with long pauses or moments of uncomfortable silence. Simply writing down ten to fifteen questions before you even begin is a good way to start. Remember that she is nervous as well, and that both of you are going to be a little shy.
Don't hang out online and try to milk the conversation into more. Let it draw to a natural and comfortable close for both of you. Pushing the conversation past its natural limits isn't going to help you or your potential mate much. If she is pining to get offline and you are trying to push her into more conversation that just leaves dead space to fill, you are both going to feel awkward. Know when to say goodbye.
Ask her about how she feels. Remember that she has a lot of different emotions, thoughts, and belief systems that would benefit you to know. The more you are interested in talking to her about her opinions and how she views the world, the more you end up getting to know her. Over the period of just a couple of weeks, you can end up knowing someone very well if you ask enough questions and you listen carefully to the response.
You are looking for a Russian woman because you are looking for someone that fits a particular profile. There is nothing wrong with that. Over 80% of long term relationships these days start online and most are done through some sort of cold contact. Don't let your imagination run wild at the sight of her photo.
Avoid that common trap of playing out scenarios in your mind before you ever talk to her. She is not imaginary and creating such scenarios in your head takes away from her reality and your chances to have a great contact.
Sometimes when we initiate first contact with Russian women online, we forget all the questions we had. Write some questions down. Try to make them questions that are not answered well with a yes or a no, but questions that encourage her to talk freely. She is most likely just as nervous as you are. If you get into a great conversation before you make it through all of your questions, put the remaining questions aside for next time.
Work off of a ready made list of open ended questions that encourage conversations. Don't just ask her if she likes something. Ask her to tell you about her experiences, her thoughts, and her beliefs. The more you ask her to talk about herself, the more comfortable she is going to be with you. The more you really take in what she is saying, the more you will know her at the end of the conversation.
Making a list of questions in advance can help you keep the conversational flow moving in a good direction. Your first contact with Russian women online doesn't have to drag out with long pauses or moments of uncomfortable silence. Simply writing down ten to fifteen questions before you even begin is a good way to start. Remember that she is nervous as well, and that both of you are going to be a little shy.
Don't hang out online and try to milk the conversation into more. Let it draw to a natural and comfortable close for both of you. Pushing the conversation past its natural limits isn't going to help you or your potential mate much. If she is pining to get offline and you are trying to push her into more conversation that just leaves dead space to fill, you are both going to feel awkward. Know when to say goodbye.
Ask her about how she feels. Remember that she has a lot of different emotions, thoughts, and belief systems that would benefit you to know. The more you are interested in talking to her about her opinions and how she views the world, the more you end up getting to know her. Over the period of just a couple of weeks, you can end up knowing someone very well if you ask enough questions and you listen carefully to the response.
About the Author:
Mark De Schutter is the owner of a Russian dating service called "Russian Dating Live". This is a web dating service for men who would wish to get in contact with Russian women who are interested about marriage to foreign men.
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